Straight men cheering man to strip!!!

maxxx_power Joined: 17 Mar 2003 Location: BWAHAHAHAHA! I'M FREE!!!!!!!

Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2003 11:00 pm    Post subject: I was out dancing the other night with a group of new friends. Most of the women had sat down but the guys were still dancing. Then the DJ began to dance and strip off his clothes, all the dudes on the dance floor began to cheer and make cat calls...egging the stripper on to show more skin.  To me this was pretty gay even for Korean men, but that may be my repressed homosexual guilt showing through, NOT!

Western heterosexuality is anti-man and unnatural

desultude Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: Dangling my toes in the Persian Gulf

Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2003 10:26 pm    Post subject: I keep reading here about how the "sensitivity" and same-sex affection of Korean men is a sign of some deeply seated, repressed homosexuality. Does this explain the same sex affection seen in almost all non-Western cultures? Mexican men have machismo, but they are also very affectionate and sensitive. The same with Cuban men.  In fact, it seems that the opposite conclusion could be drawn, and has been by some gender scholars- that it is deep seated homophobia that drives some cultures to eschew open displays of same-sex affection. And that homophobia is really driven by the self-loathing of people who fear their own homo-erotic desires.  I think that, in spite of all of the sexist faults of Korean Culture, Korean men are often more secure in their manhood and sexuality, and therefore are not threatened by being affectionate and sensitive, than a lot of the western men that I know.  This is just another interpretation of the culture here, and is probably as wrong as any other. My point is simply that those who see homosexuality in Korean male behavior are more than likely projecting rather than interpreting.